Hair Emergencies, don’t panic!

Hair Emergencies. Now that I have your attention, it’s not a thing. I admit, that I will probably be seeing more than a few home job corrections and I’m happy to help when all of this is over. In the meantime, here are some DIY hair tips you can do until you can get in to see me at the shop.

Trim your fringe (bangs) at home. Hair emergency #1

I’ve helped a few clients with how to trim their bangs without ending up with bumper bangs (see Bettie Page). If you’re like me, it was cute when you were in your 20’s, but not so much now. Sam Villa is a stylist and educator who breaks down his techniques into bite size hints that anyone can do. Just a friendly reminder that he teaches to professional hair stylists, so it’s a little different on a mannequin then in the mirror. My one caveat is PLEASE START LONG. You can always take more off, but once you cut it, you can’t put in back on.

Covering Gray or new growth (roots). Hair emergency #2

This hurts me as much as it hurts you, but don’t try to color your hair at home. I know this will be painful and hard to look at. Hopefully, you are currently doing your work remotely (Social Distancing People) and can call in to a conference bridge for your meetings. If, on the off chance that you have to do video conferencing, this is not a hair emergency, here are a few thoughts on disguising your stripe. Watch this really cute young lady make quick work of a zig zag part. Her accent is adorable.

Deep side part

The video above reminded me that a deep side part is a great method to cover new growth at your hairline. If you do a no part, part or a center part, don’t panic, just move that sucker to the side and swoop that heavy side over. Leave your hair a little loose over your forehead and tuck it behind your ear. Try to find a spot where your new growth is less noticeable to get the right effect.

Hats and headbands.

I sport a baseball cap on most of my days out of the salon. I know, sacrilege for a curly girl! That said, the brim keeps the sun and my curls off my face. When I’m lounging around the house I will have a little butterfly clip holding up my bangs. Again, the point is to keep the hair out of my face. It will not however, cover the gray any which way. I have so many headbands it’s not even funny. If you’re trying to cover new growth before a color service, let me recommend a wide scarf or headband. My last tip is to use Buffs. This is the most versatile hair emergency apparatus I have ever encountered. It’s a scarf, it’s a headband, it’s a scarf, it’s a neck gaiter. You get the idea. Wear that puppy down over your forehead to get maximum camouflage.

There are no Hair Emergencies.

I’m sorry you’re having a tough time. I hope these hair tips help in the meantime. When the going gets tough, the tough get going. Get a handle on your hair while I’m out of the shop. We are all in this together and we have to protect our most vulnerable friends and family during this time. Remember to wash your hands and don’t touch your face! I can’t wait to give you a huge hug when this is over.

Huffpost posted a day after I did

They posted several YouTube videos on Bang trims, Trimming your ends, Men’s haircut, and even a curly tutorial. Check it out…

I also have some styling tips over here….

Here are some links that I’ve found to be helpful:

I’ll reactivate my online scheduling links and phone when we have a better idea of what’s happening. Don’t panic and don’t forget your towel

~ Sarah.

Hair Donations

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Letter of Thanks

What I’m doing:

I boosted a Facebook post with pictures from the the last year or so of hair donations that I’ve done at the shop.  The response was amazing.  The support for my efforts and the number of “likes” I received was humbling.  The attention I received inspired me to post about Who I send my donations to and why.  What are some of the other charities that help people cope with hair loss.  I had the opportunity to take a donation from a women who’s from the town in India where the majority of “Remy Hair” is from and the history of hair donation there.  It all reminded me of the documentary “Good Hair” produced by Chris Rock.  He was inspired to make the movie when his daughter asked him why they didn’t have good (straight) hair.

Venkateswara Temple in Tirumala, India:

A client called to make an appointment for a hair donation back in Minnetonka.  She had beautiful wavy dark brown hair down to the middle of her back.  She told me she used to donate her hair every year, but now that she’s a little older, her hair doesn’t grow as fast as it used to so now she only donates every other year!  I had just seen the documentary “Good Hair” and was sharing an anecdote about extensions and the Temple in India.  She laughed and said that’s the village she grew up in.  I apologized for my super narrow view, she said don’t worry and told me more about it.

One of the original donation centers is in Tirumala, in Southern India, where roughly 20,000 people a day come to donate their hair.  The origin story goes that Sri Venkateswara wanted a lavish wedding celebration.  In order to finance it, he took out a loan that was so great that followers are still paying it off today.  It’s seen mostly as a sacrifice and as a way of shedding the ego.  The Temple collects 500 tons of hair per year.  The pristine hair is auctioned and sold on the world market for wigs and extensions.  Here is a little snippet from “Good Hair”.

Who I’m sending donations to and why:

I’ve recommended Pantene Beautiful Lengths  because I liked that they only needed 8 inches of hair.  People can donate 4 to 6 months sooner than with other organizations.  Pantene doesn’t charge for their wigs.  PBL has a good record of keeping their administrative costs down and have most of their resources going to women (specifically) in need.  The hair was mailed to a sorting center coincidentally, in Grand Rapids Minnesota where my parents live.  Unfortunately, they are only accepting human hair donations through the end of 2018.  PBL will be providing synthetic wigs in the future.  I’m very sad to hear this.   

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Going Forward:

When I last updated this blog, I decided to go ahead and recommend Locks of Love to my clients.  A beautiful and thoughtful fan on Facebook almost immediately replied “NOOOOOO!”.  My first thought was, Wow, that’s a pretty visceral response, but when I asked some more questions, Brande reminded me about why I didn’t go with LoL in the first place.  They do charge recipients based on their ability to pay.  She pointed out that it’s not fair, that it’s not exactly charitable.  She did some digging and found another charity that fits right in with what the Pantene program provided.  So I’m introducing Children With Hair Loss.

Children With Hair Loss is a 501 (c) 3 non-profit organization that provides human hair replacements at no cost to children and young adults facing medically-related hair loss.

CWHL requires at least 8 inches of hair and it doesn’t matter if it’s color treated or gray, as long as it’s clean and in good condition!

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Other possible Charities:

I’m a fan of  Wigs for Kids.  I’m Facebook friends with the founder Maggie Varney.  She’s a tireless worker in her salon and for the charity.  They have pretty rigorous standards.  They need 12 inches and it must be virgin (no perms, highlights, gray, or color) hair.  I don’t run into that very often, so I’m not sure when I will ever have an opportunity to donate to this wonderful organization.

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Locks of Love.  They need 10 inches of clean hair.  LoL doesn’t mind if the hair is chemically treated (color or perm), but they don’t accept hair that has been bleached (highlighted).  They have a 4 star rating from Charity Navigator.   The application process for a child requires a tax return, so the price is on a sliding scale depending on income.  Locks of Love is the most popular charity for kids with hair related medical issues.

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They’re all great charities.  Let me know when you’re ready for the big chop!

Sarah Kelly

P3 Hair Design


The Top Three Questions to Answer Before Your Makeover

New Year, new look, new you!  I love a makeover.  If you’re ready, here are the top three questions you need to answer before your makeover.

1. Thanks for bringing in the photos. What do you like or dislike about them?

Editorial styling is an art.  People in magazines are made up to look good for the camera.  Neither of us really has any idea what it took to get that volume/color/style.  I love visual aids.  They are a true expression of what you’d like me to do.  We’ll talk about what you like about the photo and I’ll check your current length, the condition of your hair, the texture of your hair and make sure it’s a good match for your lifestyle before we start your makeover.  We’ll walk through the haircut and I’ll talk you through any changes that I feel would better suit your features.  Please be patient with my questions.  Hair is my passion and I get very excited about it, I want you to be excited about it too!

2. How much effort are you willing to put into your hair?

If you’re a no fuss, no muss, person, thats okay, Most styles do need a little product – even Beachy Air Dried Waves require a little texturizing spray and a leave-in conditioner.  Super straight styles need some heat from a blow dryer and tension from a brush.  Ask me how to blow out your own hair.  Do try to embrace your natural texture – it’s the path of least resistance. If you’re not afraid of styling tools, loose curls or flat ironing your hair can refresh any hair style.  Platinum Blonde or fashion colors are beautiful but huge commitments of time and money, so if you want to go from dark brown to blonde or on the flip side, going from grey to dark brown be prepared to sit at the salon for a few hours and come back every three or four weeks for retouches.

3. What are you using at home?


Sulfate free shampoo and conditioner are going to best protect your new cut and/or color.  Salon QUALITY products are just that.  I’m going to use the best possible products on your hair so we achieve the best results, why wouldn’t you want that too?  Clients ask me what is the difference?  P&G (no offense) are going to use the least expensive stuff they can get in the highest quantities.  It’s simple economics.  I have the best quality products for a reasonable price, I have to buy them too!   I highly recommend Alterna Haircare products and you can pick them up from Mira Bella.

So, when would you like to get together?

Sarah Kelly – p3hair

(805) 324-7950

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